Today I want to talk about relationships. For those of us who have been and in a relationship, I’m very sure that you have experienced fighting over things that you realize later on are not essential to the relationship itself.
I think we should only fight over things that are affecting the relationship. Other than that, leave it alone. Just let it go.
When 2 becomes 1, I believe that the need to nurture and maintain the harmony of the relationship is much greater than to satisfy the need of an individual. That, I think, is the ultimate sacrifice in having a relationship and a family. However, if we still love our partner and loving what we have, I believe that, as long as you can tolerate some of the things that you find annoying or don’t like, you should always prioritize the relationship.
Not all the things that we do to maintain harmony are going to be pleasing, but they still need to be done for the greater purpose. I think both partners should learn to accept the situation, support each other always and focus on the that greater purpose itself. It is afterall done for the both of you, for your future together and holding on to that beats the feeling of dissatisfaction and anger.